The loser is determined to be your everything. Telling you that your supportive friends and/or family treat you badly, take advantage of you, don't understand how special the love you two share is, the loser urges you to cut everyone else off. They're jealous and threatened by anyone you're close to, even your children! You must be available and account for your whereabouts 24/7. In short, the loser wants complete control.
3. He or she fails the waitress test.
The way an individual treats a server, clerk, or other neutral person, especially of the opposite sex, is the way they'll eventually treat you. If they whine, complain, criticize, torment, or act like an arrogant jerk, you can count on receiving the same treatment down the line.
4. He or she has a super-scary temper.
The loser really loses it. They get mad easily, blow up, and do dangerous things like drive too fast, throw stuff, get into fights, or threaten others. Though the loser promptly assures you that they are not angry with you, but at others or the situation, you can be sure that their hostility and violence will eventually be directed at you.
5. He or she is a confidence assassin.
The loser repeatedly puts you down. Constantly correcting your slightest mistakes, they tell you you're too fat, not very intelligent, have no taste, and always leave you with the feeling that you're not quite good enough. This gradual chipping away at your self-esteem allows them to later treat you really badly and make you feel you deserve it.
6. He or she keeps you spinning.
The loser cycles from mean to sweet... and back again. One day is filled with hurtful criticism and verbal abuse. The next day they're absolute darlings, apologizing for their recent "lousy mood" an
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